After a breakup, one question can take over your whole mind: does my ex still love me? You replay conversations, read meaning into every message and check their social media for clues. It is exhausting, and it is completely human. Love does not switch off the moment a relationship ends, and very often it does not switch off for your ex either.
I am Prof Nahabu, a psychic, spell caster and traditional healer. Over many years I have read for thousands of people trying to understand an ex's feelings. These are the five signs I see most often when love is still present, along with what they really mean and what you can do next.
Ask a Psychic About Your Ex – WhatsApp1. They Stay in Contact
If your ex keeps finding reasons to talk to you, even about small or practical things, it often means they are not ready to let go. A message about something they "found" of yours, a birthday wish, a reply that comes quickly every time: these are ways of keeping a door open without admitting it.
What it means: they still want you in their life in some form. The connection has not been cut.
2. They Respond Emotionally
Indifference is the opposite of love, not anger. If your ex reacts strongly to you, whether with warmth, sadness, frustration or even irritation, it shows that you still affect them emotionally. People who have truly moved on tend to respond with polite calm.
What it means: feelings are still active. The question is whether they are being covered by hurt or pride.
3. They Ask About Your Life
If your ex asks how you are doing, wants to know about your job or family, or asks mutual friends about you, they are still invested in your wellbeing. Curiosity about someone's life is one of the clearest signs of lingering care.
What it means: you are still on their mind, and they want to know whether you are okay without them.
4. They Show Jealousy
A flash of jealousy when you mention someone new, a sharp question about who you were with or a sudden change in mood when they see you with others are all signs that your ex still feels a sense of attachment to you.
What it means: some part of them still sees you as theirs. Handle this sign carefully; trying to provoke jealousy on purpose usually backfires.
5. You Feel the Connection
Sometimes the strongest sign is the one you feel rather than see. Many clients tell me they can sense their ex thinking of them, dream about them often or feel a pull that does not fade. In my experience, that feeling is rarely imagined. Energy between two people who have loved each other often remains strong long after the breakup.
What it means: the spiritual bond is still alive. A reading can confirm whether your ex feels it too.
The heart often knows before the head is ready to admit it. A reading helps both catch up.
Why Feelings Often Remain After a Breakup
Relationships end for many reasons that have nothing to do with love disappearing: stress, distance, misunderstandings, family pressure, fear of commitment or one painful argument that went too far. When love has not truly ended, it stays, covered by pride or hurt. That is why so many couples reunite, sometimes months or even years later.
How a Psychic Reading Can Help
Signs can be confusing, and it is easy to see what we hope to see. A reading gives you an honest view of your ex's feelings, what is holding them back and whether reconciliation is likely to bring you happiness. You can learn more about my psychic relationship guidance.
- Reach out privately. Send me a WhatsApp message with your story.
- Love reading. I read your energy and your ex's to see their true feelings.
- Honest answer. I tell you clearly whether the love is still present and what is blocking it.
- Next steps. I guide you on what to do and, if it is right, offer spiritual support such as love spells.
Why Communication Matters
Even when an ex still loves you, poor communication can keep you apart. Long emotional messages, arguments over old issues or pressure to "decide now" can push them away. Calm, warm and confident communication gives love room to return. My articles on when is the right time to contact your ex and mistakes to avoid when trying to get your ex back explain how.
What You Should Do Next
If you recognise several of these signs, there is real hope. Take things slowly, look after yourself, avoid pressure and get clear guidance before you act. If you are in Australia, these pages explain how I help locally:
An Honest Word
A reading shows what is there, and spiritual work can help clear what blocks it, but no one can guarantee another person's choices. What I can tell you is that most of my clients do receive the clarity and results they hoped for, and I will always tell you the truth.
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